Leading the Family in Tough Times

Leading the Family in Tough Times   (Psalm 44)
 
A father can lead in tough times by  boasting about God.
[1] We have heard with our ears, O God; our fathers have told us what you did in their days, in days long ago.  [2] With your hand you drove our the nations and planted our fathers; you crushed the peoples and made our fathers flourish.  [3] It was not by their sword that they won the land, nor did their arm bring them victory; it was your right hand, your arm, and the light of your face, for you loved them.  [4] You are my King and my God, who decrees victories for Jacob.  [5] Through you we push back our enemies; through your name we trample our foes.  [6] I do not trust in my bow, my sword does not bring me victory; [7] but you give us victory over our enemies, you put our adversaries to shame.  [8] In God we make our boast all day long, and we will praise your name forever.
 
A father can lead in tough times by being  honest about God.
[9] But now you have rejected and humbled us; you no longer go out with our armies.  [10] You made us retreat before the enemy, and our adversaries have plundered us.  [11] You gave us up to be devoured like sheep and have scattered us among the nations.  [12] You sold your people for a pittance, gaining nothing from their sale.  [13] You have made us a reproach to our neighbors, the scorn and derision of those around us.  [14] You have made us a byword among the nations; the peoples shake their heads at us.  [15] My disgrace is before me all day long, and my face is covered with shame [16] at the taunts of those who reproach and revile me, because of the enemy, who is bent on revenge.
 
A father can lead in tough times by being  faithful to God.
[17] All this happened to us, though we had not forgotten you or been false to your covenant.  [18] Our hearts had not turned back; our feet had not strayed from your path.  [19] But you crushed us and made us a haunt for jackals and covered us over with deep darkness.  [20] If we had forgotten the name of our God or spread out our hands to a foreign god, [21] would not God have discovered it, since he knows the secrets of the heart?  [22] Yet for your sake we face death all day long; we are considered as sheep to be slaughtered.
 
A father can lead in tough times by   trusting in God.
[23] Awake, O Lord!  Why do you sleep?  Rouse yourself!  Do not reject us forever.  [24] Why do you hide your face and forget our misery and oppression?  [25] We are brought down to the dust; our bodies cling to the ground.  [26] Rise up and help us; redeem us because of your unfailing love.